
This title is from Norah Jones, a Jazz song, Baby it's cold outside.
So who is your boyfriend? A westerner or a Asian? I am sure that Asian will say, baby, it's cold outside, how is about your german boy friend gonna to say when it snows outside?
I have to admit there is a huge difference between Asian boy and Westerner (or here I'd would like to say German boys). Once W concluded, "I have no interested in German boys any more. Because, german are ideal for dating, but never gonna be a good husband. " Talked to a friend yesterday, she said, with german, my life is my life, your life is your life. For, at least, Chinese, when two are together, your life is my life, my life is your life, two ppl are real "Together". I was joking, well for me, it is better, your life is your life, and my life is your life, haha. Well, you know, nothing is perfect.
German are independent, especially personality independent. For German, when I like you and you like me, then they are together. Man do not really "After" a girl.Of course, they will do romantic things but man do not need to pay too much. When the feeling is fading, well, it is time to say good bye. And after that, two still could be friends. Chinese are a little bit different. Boys should do sth for girls which so called "test". After certain tests, girls will be with boys, well, if the girl also likes the boy. And there is one principle, you'd better never after a boy. Chinese boys do not like positive girls, they prefer to be the controller. Well, definitely, German are opposite. As my language partner told me, in Germany, you have to talk to boy first or at least you need to give a hint, otherwise, you could wait for your Mr.right, forever.... (what the hell, no wonder German women are famous for there strong characters).... And when the relationship start, german pay more attention to feeling, chinese concentrate on details. So, this is part of culture different. I can't not say anything about marriage, because I never go through that part, well, I even doubt if I have the chance. Being single and fabulous !!!!
Apple or organ, which one is your favorite? It really depends on you...

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